Have you ever considered the difference between a high achiever and an overachiever? Many lump these two types of people together because on the outside they may look alike. But on the inside, there is a distinct difference.
High Achievement
High achievers hit significant goals regularly but care more about the process it takes to get there. They work hard but make sure their values are aligned with their work. Their focus is less on perfection and more on growth. Consistency, focus and boundaries are common traits along with a healthy identity. Their work tends to have more purpose and meaning as a result.
Overachievement
On the other hand, overachievers may hit the same goals but are never satisfied because they are pursuing an ideal. Many times, their expectations for themselves and others are unrealistic creating a recipe for constant disappointment. Their focus is more on achievement and status rather than on the journey and quality of their relationships. Perfectionism and hyper-competitive are common attributes with overachievers. Burnout and at times obsession can develop if not self-aware.
Tom Brady was interviewed on 60 Minutes in June 2005 after winning his third Super Bowl ring. He said, “It’s gotta be more than this. I’m 27. And what else is there for me?” He went on to win four more Super Bowls, but I wonder if he has found purpose, meaning and joy along the way.
So, what best describes you? Are you focused on consistency and a healthy process? Or do you ever tend towards overachievement dealing with regular disappointment and comparison? Sometimes all we are missing is the point.
Mindset
I encourage you to spend some time today reviewing your mindset towards work and anything else you are putting effort towards. Shifting your focus to the journey and healthy relationships will provide much more meaning and purpose along the way. I’m reminded of the old saying, “If you win the rat race you’re still a rat.”
One last thought: if you really want more meaning and purpose in your life consider a quote by Cole Huffman. He said, “We need a meaning in life that loss or suffering can’t take away.” Now that is something worth pondering.
